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"Your Personal Guide Through Transformation"
Certified Sex & Relationship Coach | Transformation Coaching for Authentic Living
You've been doing the work. Reading the books. Listening to the podcasts. Following the advice.
But something's still missing.
Maybe you're stuck in patterns you can't seem to break. Maybe your relationships feel disconnected or unfulfilling. Maybe intimacy has become a source of stress instead of connection. Maybe you're healing from betrayal, trauma, or toxic patterns. Maybe you're navigating a major life transition and need support. Maybe you know there's a next level for you - but you can't see the path alone.
That's where I come in.
I'm Nyomi Banks - certified sex and relationship coach, podcast host, and someone who's walked through fire and come out radiant on the other side. From the adult industry to healing advocate. From people-pleasing to boundary-setting. From survival to thriving.
I've done the deep work on relationships, intimacy, sexuality, and authentic living. And now I walk beside people like you as you do yours.
This isn’t a quick chat or a casual DM—it’s your elevation journey. If what you’ve read here feels like a full‑body yes, I’d love to learn more about you.
Click Apply for Coaching below and complete the short application. Tell me where you are, what you’ve tried, and what you’re ready to change. I personally review every application and will email you with next steps if it’s a good fit.
WHO THIS IS FOR
"Is This Coaching For You?"
Elevate Me Coaching is for you if:
✨ You're ready to heal from past trauma (abuse, betrayal, toxic relationships)
✨ You want to transform your romantic relationship or marriage
✨ You're struggling with intimacy, connection, or sexual fulfillment
✨ You're navigating infidelity, betrayal, or trust issues
✨ You struggle with boundaries and communicating your needs
✨ You're tired of people-pleasing and ready to prioritize yourself
✨ You want to build unshakeable self-love and confidence
✨ You're ready to improve communication and emotional intelligence
✨ You're exploring your sexuality and need a safe space
✨ You feel stuck in relationship patterns you can't break alone
✨ You're seeking spiritual alignment and authentic living
✨ You're ready to step into your power and purpose
✨ You're navigating major life transitions (divorce, career change, health journey)
This coaching is NOT for you if:
❌ You're looking for quick fixes or magic solutions
❌ You're not willing to do uncomfortable inner work
❌ You want someone to tell you what to do (I guide, you decide)
❌ You're not ready to take responsibility for your transformation
❌ You're seeking therapy (I'm a coach, not a therapist)
If you see yourself in this and you’re ready to do the work—not just talk about it—scroll down and complete the coaching application. That’s your first step.