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The Next Level Library: Love, Intimacy & Real Talk


The Dating App Disaster: Jordan's Journey
The Dating App Disaster A 38-year-old divorced dad learns the hard way that you can’t skip the healing to get to the happy ending. Jordan stared at his phone screen, thumb hovering over the download button. Hinge. Bumble. Tinder. The holy trinity of modern dating, according to his buddy Marcus, who’d been divorced for three years and seemed to have it all figured out. “Bro, you’ve been single for a year and a half,” Marcus had said over beers last weekend. “Michelle’s alread

Shade Goddess
Jan 146 min read


Modern Manhood: Navigating Culture, Tradition, and Identity
Being a man today can feel like an impossible balancing act: be strong but vulnerable, lead but don’t dominate, provide but stay emotionally present. This post breaks down the pressure, the loneliness, and the mixed messages around masculinity—and offers a healthier definition rooted in character, integrity, and wholeness. No performance. No policing. Just real modern manhood.

Nyomi Banks
Jan 110 min read


You Didn't Come Here for Surface-Level. Welcome to The Reclamation.
They'll tell you the new year is about resolutions. About being "better." About fixing what's broken. But you and I both know—nothing about you was ever broken. Welcome to the revamped Ask Nyomi. This isn't just a website refresh. This is the physical manifestation of what happens when someone stops performing, stops shrinking, stops asking permission to take up space. This is what rebirth looks like when you document it in real time. If you've been following my journey, you

Shade Goddess
Jan 13 min read


5 Signs You’re Not Ready to Date (And That’s Okay)
After heartbreak, it’s easy to rush back into dating to prove you’re “fine.” But sometimes the bravest move is to pause. In this post, I’m sharing 5 signs you may not be ready to date yet—like dating to distract, seeking validation, replaying the past, and bending your boundaries—plus why that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re healing.

Shade Goddess
Jan 13 min read
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