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The Next Level Library: Love, Intimacy & Real Talk


5 Signs You’re Not Ready to Date (And That’s Okay)
After heartbreak, it’s easy to rush back into dating to prove you’re “fine.” But sometimes the bravest move is to pause. In this post, I’m sharing 5 signs you may not be ready to date yet—like dating to distract, seeking validation, replaying the past, and bending your boundaries—plus why that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re healing.

Shade Goddess
2 days ago3 min read


"Setting the Mood: Your Ultimate Valentine's Day Guide to Romance & Pleasure"
Hey there, BTG Lovers! 💋 Setting The Mood Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and whether you're in a relationship or celebrating yourself, I'm excited to help you craft a truly memorable and delightful experience. Let's chat about two key elements that can elevate your Valentine's celebration from ordinary to extraordinary. First up – Let's create a lovely atmosphere 🍷 A perfectly chosen bottle of wine really captures the essence of romance. With the help of our f

Shade Goddess
Feb 12, 20252 min read


Nyomi's Love Laws
'The Communication Clarity Code Hey my sexy people! Welcome to the first blog post of Nyomi's Love Laws. Join me every week as I take your love life to a new level this year. What better way to kick off the month of love than with 'The Communication Clarity Code'? Many times, we find ourselves in uncomfortable situations due to a lack of clear communication. Law 1: Express Needs Directly Envision this: You and your partner hold weekends in high regard as a precious time for y

Shade Goddess
Feb 3, 20252 min read


Soulful Connections: Nurturing Spiritual Bonds in Romantic Relationships
Good Wednesday, my beautiful people! Welcome to another enriching week of our "Love, Lust, Enlightenment" summer blog series. Today, we're diving deep into the realm of soulful connections and how nurturing spiritual bonds can profoundly enhance romantic relationships. Let's explore how we can foster these spiritual ties, the significance they hold, and practical ways to cultivate them in our daily lives. The Essence of Soulful Connections Soulful connections in romantic rel

Shade Goddess
Aug 7, 20246 min read


Speaking the Language of Intimacy: The Power of Communication in the Bedroom
Good day my beautiful people! For those looking for that early morning blog session, my apologies. I had to sit on this one for a minute. I truly wanted to give this blog post topic its due diligence. We are talking about Love, Lust, and Enlightenment, right? I know in week two I kind of jumped the gun and gave you all a nice steaming hot post, and I left y’all hanging. Unfortunately, you lovely folks have to hang on a bit longer. But I got your back!! This week’s topic is al

Shade Goddess
Jul 10, 20247 min read


The Language of Love: Communication in Relationships and Self-Compassion
Week 3: The Language of Love: Communication in Relationships and Self-Compassion Good day my sexy people! By the email and DM responses, I see that you all enjoyed the blog from last week. I left you with a cliffhanger. I left your body all warm and tingling, maybe even felt a little hardness coming on. Right? Got you excited to see how that Vegas swim session ended. Well, my sexy people, you’re going to have to hang on a little longer. I know you’re like, "Noooo Nyomi, don’t

Shade Goddess
Jul 3, 20245 min read
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