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'The Communication Clarity Code



Hey my sexy people! Welcome to the first blog post of Nyomi's Love Laws. Join me every week as I take your love life to a new level this year. What better way to kick off the month of love than with 'The Communication Clarity Code'? Many times, we find ourselves in uncomfortable situations due to a lack of clear communication.


Law 1: Express Needs Directly


Envision this: You and your partner hold weekends in high regard as a precious time for you two. Instead of expressing your desire for a beach vacation with the words "I really want to spend this weekend at the beach," you subtly hint at it by noting your love of the water or leaving beach brochures about. While you plot a getaway to the mountains, your partner completely misses the clue. Even if the mountains are stunning, you're not quite prepared for the weekend. If only you'd been more forthright in stating what you wanted! This situation illustrates how clear communication may avoid confusion and guarantee that all parties are aligned.


Law 2: Listen to Understand, Not to Respond 


Picture this: Alex and Jamie, a married couple who frequently engage in argumentative exchanges. Jamie becomes irritated and feels unheard during one of these arguments over doing housework. Alex opts to hear the other person out instead of thinking up a retort. Upon listening to Jamie's voice, he becomes acutely aware that the problem lies not only with the household tasks but with her whole sense of being overwhelmed. Alex avoids a dispute by listening to comprehend Jamie's sentiments, which allows them to connect on a deeper level and show empathy. By taking this technique, not only is the dispute resolved, but their friendship is also strengthened.

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Law 3: Check Understanding by Repeating Back What You Heard


A tough day at the office has left Sam saying to his coworker Taylor, "I need some quiet time." Taylor takes this as a sign that she will be spending time alone and begins to organize her own schedule. Sam later feels unappreciated since he assumed Taylor was unwilling to spend time with him. By just saying, "You need some time to unwind quietly, right?" once again. Taylor should have asked Sam if he preferred to unwind among others or on his own. This short check-in keeps everyone on the same page and makes sure each partner feels appreciated.


Final Thoughts: "Your relationship deserves clear communication, and by following these laws, you're setting the stage for a more connected and fulfilling partnership. Want more relationship wisdom? Listen to 'Ask Nyomi Bridging The Gap Podcast' every Thursday!"



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Charmayne
Charmayne
Feb 03

Love this!!! 🩷🩷🩷

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